Vaginal wind problems?

What happens to cause a vaginal wind (fanny fart) and what can you do to prevent this happening? more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 25/11/2005 10:02:04 AM
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My dream guy is 19, and he lives on the other side of the world!

I am 15 years old and fell in love with a guy over the internet who's 19. I trust him and care about him a lot and couldn't imagine my life without him and he is in love with me. I would love to meet up with him but the problem is he lives in Austr more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 25/10/2005 4:05:31 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-dream-guy-is-19-and-he-lives.html

So pleased to be pregnant! But worried the baby is not my boyfriends...

I've recently found out I'm pregnant but something is nagging at me and bringing me down. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year (I'm 17 and he's 21). I really love him but I strayed a couple of months ago (when I got pregnant) and sl more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 24/10/2005 8:17:27 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/so-pleased-to-be-pregnant--but-worried.html

Why does my girlfriend go from nice one minute to explosively aggressive the next?

I really dont know what to do. I've been with my fiancee for two years now and I'm starting to have doubts about our relationship. When I'm around her it's like I'm walking on eggshells. One minute she can be nice and the next minute she can expl more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 24/10/2005 10:45:21 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-my-girlfriend-go-from-nice-one.html

Feeling like I should leave my marriage and go back to my first husband...

I am a newlywed of one year and was divorced from my first husband 1 1/2 years ago. My ex and I were together for 13 years and married nine. We have 2 children together and have maintained a very close friendship. The problem is, even though I more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 24/10/2005 4:35:17 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/feeling-like-i-should-leave-my-marriage-and.html

A friend of ours was secretly meeting up with my partner. Now I can't get over the betrayal!

Please help - I really need an outsiders objective! I am 23 and have been with my boyfriend (29) for 5 years. We used to have a brilliant relationship - I used to feel so loved and safe and like nothing could come between us. How wrong was I!! more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 24/10/2005 2:21:10 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/a-friend-of-ours-was-secretly-meeting-up.html

Our age gap doesn't bother me, but it bothers him!

My partner and I have been together for five years. I'm 28 and he's 52. For me the age gap is nothing, it's my feelings for him that matter. But the age gap affects my partner. My friend says he'll be drawing his pension in 13 years and I'll more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 23/10/2005 4:17:15 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/our-age-gap-doesnt-bother-me-but-it.html

I'm disturbed by my new boyfriend's daughter who just won't stop flashing!

My new boyfriend has a 24year old daughter, who keeps flashing him. He tells me when she does and finds it hilarious, but I find it a bit disturbing. Once she called him into her bedroom and when he entered she was bent over butt naked! Another time more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 22/10/2005 10:23:10 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-disturbed-by-my-new-boyfriends-daughter-who.html

I think my parents are racist, because they don't like my non-white friends.

Hello. I have a problem with my parents accepting my friends. Even though my parents especially my dad claims not to be racist they are. I'm a white male, 21yrs old, and my best friend is a non white. He is indian/very fair skin. My parents don't more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 22/10/2005 5:15:07 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-my-parents-are-racist-because-they.html

How can I be sure that this relationship will make it in the long term?

Hi, I have been living with my partner N for three years. He is 24, I am 25. We both love each other very much, but since the beginning of our relationship I have been getting bouts of doubt about our future together. It happens every couple of more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 21/10/2005 2:09:04 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-be-sure-that-this-relationship.html

I'm afraid I'll never grow taller!

Hi, please could you help me? I am 15 and all my life so far I have been small - but recently I grew taller than my sis and my mom (who is small anyway) but I'm still not as tall as my mates or most 15 year olds but smaller people than me before are more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 20/10/2005 6:42:01 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-afraid-ill-never-grow-taller.html

The boy I want now has other girls that he "loves", besides me!

Help, I'm going crazy! There is this boy. I like him, I really really like him, he makes me feel like no other person has ever the feeling is indescribable, I think it's love. I went out with him once, but we split up because he fancied another g more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 20/10/2005 8:27:00 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-boy-i-want-now-has-other-girls-he-loves.html

I can't stop thinking about him, but he's 43!

I am 15 and I am in love with a 43 year old man. I don't really know him that well, but I do know that he is really nice and kind. I find myself thinking about him nearlly all the time. What should I do? more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 20/10/2005 6:47:57 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-stop-thinking-about-him-but-hes-43.html

I think sex is disgusting. Can I still find a proper relationship?

Hi I'm 16. I think that sex is disgusting and I'm not to keen on kissing either. Am I the only one and is there any chance of me finding a proper relationship? help and thanks more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 19/10/2005 7:05:53 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-sex-is-disgusting-can-i-still.html

Should I break up with him, since he doesn't care about my feelings?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and now he is saying that he wants to go back to just dating. We where almost living together when he decided this. Now he went away for the weekend with friends and I didn't hear form him more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 19/10/2005 2:58:45 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-break-up-with-him-since-he.html

There are 10 years between us. It feels like too big a gap!

I'm 15 years old and have been involved with a guy, we'll call him Joey, who just turned 25 for the past few months. To me, 10 years is a huge difference and really strange. With any other guy of his age I'd have nothing to do with him. But this more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 18/10/2005 8:58:42 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/there-are-10-years-between-us-it-feels.html

My girlfriend has written me out of her life...and she says there's no chance of changing her mind.

Dear Cupid I have been going out with a great girl for just over three years, but she has decided that she doesnt want to be part of this relationship any more, and she has ended it during a disagreemen we had about something very minor. From more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 15/10/2005 11:40:19 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-has-written-me-out-of-her-life.html

I thought our meeting and date seemed to go well, but I haven't heard from him since!

Hi, I have just turned thirty, seem to have the most perfect family ever - well let's just say someone had to be the black sheep - i just do it well. Two weeks ago I met a guy through the internet. Wwe met and I thought for just once it might wo more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 15/10/2005 7:29:14 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-thought-our-meeting-and-date-seemed-to.html

I thought our meeting and date seemed to go well, but I haven't heard from him since!

Hi, I have just turned thirty, seem to have the most perfect family ever - well let's just say someone had to be the black sheep - i just do it well. Two weeks ago I met a guy through the internet. Wwe met and I thought for just once it might wo more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 15/10/2005 7:29:14 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-thought-our-meeting-and-date-seemed-to.html

I' lost interest in sex with my wife after the baby was born...

After my wife had a baby, I don't want to have sex with her. I don't know why. more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 14/10/2005 10:48:08 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/lost-interest-in-my-wife-after-the-baby.html

I' lost interest in sex with my wife after the baby was born...

After my wife had a baby, I don't want to have sex with her. I don't know why. more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 14/10/2005 10:48:09 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/lost-interest-in-my-wife-after-the-baby.html

She says she regrets cheating, but I'm having difficulty dealing with my doubts about her...

I have a real problem with my relationship, but first let me provide some background information. I am only sixteen, and my girlfriend is of the same age. This is the first major relationship I've ever had. My first everything is with this gir more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 14/10/2005 2:55:03 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-says-she-regrets-cheating-but-im-having.html

She says she regrets cheating, but I'm having difficulty dealing with my doubts about her...

I have a real problem with my relationship, but first let me provide some background information. I am only sixteen, and my girlfriend is of the same age. This is the first major relationship I've ever had. My first everything is with this gir more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 14/10/2005 2:55:03 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-says-she-regrets-cheating-but-im-having.html

It's wearing my boyfriend out, dividing his time between me and his son!

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He is very nice and says he loves me. I also love him. The problem him being 58 and has a 16 year old son. I am 50 with no children and dependents at home. He says he did not think that he would more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 13/10/2005 8:37:55 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-wearing-my-boyfriend-out-dividing-his-time.html

It's wearing my boyfriend out, dividing his time between me and his son!

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now. He is very nice and says he loves me. I also love him. The problem him being 58 and has a 16 year old son. I am 50 with no children and dependents at home. He says he did not think that he would more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 13/10/2005 8:37:55 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-wearing-my-boyfriend-out-dividing-his-time.html

Has my interest in romantic movies ruined my chances of a happy relationship!?

Dear Cupid, There is this weird thought that makes me constantly question the relationship between a guy and a girl. I am an adult guy who has had a few flings but that's all. I never sustained a relationship with a girl for the fear of getting more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 13/10/2005 3:51:48 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/has-my-interest-in-romantic-movies-ruined-my.html

Has my interest in romantic movies ruined my chances of a happy relationship!?

Dear Cupid, There is this weird thought that makes me constantly question the relationship between a guy and a girl. I am an adult guy who has had a few flings but that's all. I never sustained a relationship with a girl for the fear of getting more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 13/10/2005 3:51:48 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/has-my-interest-in-romantic-movies-ruined-my.html

Is my sexual obsession with my sister-in-law healthy... Or not?!

Dear Cupid, I really need to know if I am "normal" and if this problem I have is common among married men. Cut the story short, I have been having sexual fantasies about my wife's older sister for almost a year now. I'm so afraid its getting u more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 12/10/2005 7:01:35 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-sexual-obsession-with-my-sister-in.html

Is my sexual obsession with my sister-in-law healthy... Or not?!

Dear Cupid, I really need to know if I am "normal" and if this problem I have is common among married men. Cut the story short, I have been having sexual fantasies about my wife's older sister for almost a year now. I'm so afraid its getting u more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 12/10/2005 7:01:35 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-my-sexual-obsession-with-my-sister-in.html

What can I do to get my family to accept my relationship?

Dear Cupid, My relationship is cool, except that my family doesn't approve of it. What should I do? more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 11/10/2005 9:22:30 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-can-i-do-to-get-my-family.html

How do I let him down easy, without breaking his heart?

This boy asked me out. I'm 17, he's 18. I'm really sorta close with his brother, and this boy, my friend's brother, really likes me, and I got home last night and I had an offline, where he asked me out. I feel so horrible, but I don't like him that more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 11/10/2005 8:59:23 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-let-him-down-easy-without.html

My girlfriend told me our "honeymoon period" was over, but I still want to see her!

I was attached with this girl of mine. We have been seeing each other every day, doing the same thing like fetching her from work, having dinner together, spending weekend over at her place. This continued for 2 months until over one of the weekend, more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 10/10/2005 6:26:15 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-told-me-our-honeymoon-period-was.html

My girlfriend told me our "honeymoon period" was over, but I still want to see her!

I was attached with this girl of mine. We have been seeing each other every day, doing the same thing like fetching her from work, having dinner together, spending weekend over at her place. This continued for 2 months until over one of the weekend, more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 10/10/2005 6:26:15 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-told-me-our-honeymoon-period-was.html

We split up to clear our heads, but when would it be OK to date again?

Dear Cupid, My story is that my Girlfriend and I broke up 3 months ago to try and clear our heads over certain issues that affected our relationship. Some 2 months ago, she said that our relationship had come to an end ! Some 2 weeks ago, I fou more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 10/10/2005 5:22:08 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-split-up-to-clear-our-heads-but.html

We split up to clear our heads, but when would it be OK to date again?

Dear Cupid, My story is that my Girlfriend and I broke up 3 months ago to try and clear our heads over certain issues that affected our relationship. Some 2 months ago, she said that our relationship had come to an end ! Some 2 weeks ago, I fou more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 10/10/2005 5:22:08 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-split-up-to-clear-our-heads-but.html

He loves me so much that he's angry and jealous about other guys all the time...

Hello, I am after desperate help to save my relationship with my partner. I am 22 years and he is 40 years. We are soul mates! We have been through so much more grief than anyone should have to go through however it has meant that we have become so more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 09/10/2005 6:43:58 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-loves-me-so-much-that-hes-angry.html

He loves me so much that he's angry and jealous about other guys all the time...

Hello, I am after desperate help to save my relationship with my partner. I am 22 years and he is 40 years. We are soul mates! We have been through so much more grief than anyone should have to go through however it has meant that we have become so more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 09/10/2005 6:43:58 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-loves-me-so-much-that-hes-angry.html

My holiday romance could continue here at home, but I think he's protecting his feelings!

Hi, I met a really lovely guy on holiday. He pursued me, and I was completely swept off my feet. At first I never really thought it would be anything more than a holiday romance, but when we returned home we spoke on the phone every day, and have more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 09/10/2005 2:27:52 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-holiday-romance-could-continue-here-at-home.html

My holiday romance could continue here at home, but I think he's protecting his feelings!

Hi, I met a really lovely guy on holiday. He pursued me, and I was completely swept off my feet. At first I never really thought it would be anything more than a holiday romance, but when we returned home we spoke on the phone every day, and have more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 09/10/2005 2:27:53 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-holiday-romance-could-continue-here-at-home.html

To reduce the hurt, is it better to just cut off all contact with my ex?

My ex and I split up in July. We had an upsetting break up when she dumped me for a friend of hers. We went on a break. I suggested it and she was heartbroken. I really upset her. In the break, she got over me and didn't want to risk getting hurt more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 08/10/2005 7:49:47 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/to-reduce-the-hurt-is-it-better-to.html

To reduce the hurt, is it better to just cut off all contact with my ex?

My ex and I split up in July. We had an upsetting break up when she dumped me for a friend of hers. We went on a break. I suggested it and she was heartbroken. I really upset her. In the break, she got over me and didn't want to risk getting hurt more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 08/10/2005 7:49:47 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/to-reduce-the-hurt-is-it-better-to.html

Should my baby and I go home to my boyfriend?

My boyfriend and i have been together for 19 months. We have a new baby which he didn't really want. As a result of this, after leaving hospital I returned home to my parents' house. I am now at their house, but want to return home, however there more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 07/10/2005 6:29:35 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-my-baby-and-i-go-home-to.html

Should my baby and I go home to my boyfriend?

My boyfriend and i have been together for 19 months. We have a new baby which he didn't really want. As a result of this, after leaving hospital I returned home to my parents' house. I am now at their house, but want to return home, however there more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 07/10/2005 6:29:35 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-my-baby-and-i-go-home-to.html

My girl can't make her mind up whether to choose the other lad or me!

hi I have just had a big uproar with my girl. It all started cos she said that she had feelings for another lad, but she does not want to lose me. I still love her and now she is trying to make her mind up. How can I help her choose me? more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 07/10/2005 8:35:31 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girl-cant-make-her-mind-up-whether.html

I want to know if my male friend is just being chatty, or if he might be interested in me...

I have a male friend who I meet up with once every month/2 months for a drink amongst friends. However over the last 6 months I have noticed when he feels no-one is looking he winks at me and when we went out last week, after he had winked at me more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 06/10/2005 4:47:28 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-know-if-my-male-friend.html

Do I tell what I know about my sexual abuser?

I have a problem from my past which is coming back to haunt me. I was sexually abused by a family 'friend' when I was 6. I never told anyone and after a few years, I stopped seeing him so he couldn't do anything to me anymore. I never told my more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 06/10/2005 6:43:25 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-tell-what-i-know-about-my-abuser.html

She's attractive, persistant...and married!

I am a single male of 55 and recently left a place of work where I had a friendship with a lady who is married. She is 40 and asked me out several times, and although I was polite and declined, she was persistent and I have met her a couple o more...


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Originally Posted on 05/10/2005 5:00:21 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-attractive-persistant-and-married.html

Has my husband always been bisexual?

I have a bi-sexual, cybercheating husband. The catch, or better yet, is he's only like this when he's under the influence. My question is, has he always been bi-sexual, that certain drugs just makes him desire other sexual wants? more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 04/10/2005 9:16:19 PM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/has-my-husband-always-been-bisexual.html

I'm pregnant to my boyfriend... In Thailand, this isn't allowed!

Firstly I have to telll all of you that I am a Thai lady. Actually Thai lady can marry just only once and we cannot get pregnant before getting married. Whoever does that must be punished from the society, like gossiping etc. All of you may be more...


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Originally Posted on 04/10/2005 11:41:17 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-pregnant-to-my-boyfriend-in-thailand-this.html

What did he mean? "Too attached"?

Hi, I really like this guy, we spent 3 months together hanging out. We decided that we were going to be friends with benefits. Things were going really well, he was getting really affectionate, and it looked like we had a lot in common. more...


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Originally Posted on 04/10/2005 1:19:15 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-did-he-mean-too-attached.html

My friend's girlfriend is so jealous, she wants us to break off any contact!

I have a problem with a friend in my classroom. I am an 18 year-old girl and I have a close friend. He is very poppular in my classroom but I never feel about him more than a friend. He has girlfriend that very lovely, cool and talent but she is more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 04/10/2005 12:16:11 AM
Content source: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friends-girlfriend-is-so-jealous-she-wants.html

The 40-Year-Old Virgin: a surprisingly good movie

(These goofy head-shot pictures are great, aren't they?)When I went to see this movie on Monday night, I hadn't initially planned to view it, ever. In fact, the only reason I went was because I was invited by a friend at the last minute. I arrived fully expecting to see a crude comedy glorifying sex as the purpose of all life (see previous post). Instead, I saw a well-written, expertly acted, and somewhat reasonable movie."Somewhat reasonable" is a huge compliment to any love story. Most romance movies bring the man and women together somehow through ridiculous circumstances, and behavior that is exhibited in most of these flicks would never be seen in real life. It's not that being unreasonable is bad, because one wouldn't go to the movies if (s)he expects to see real life, but telling an excellent story and managing to be somewhat reasonable about it makes it more powerful.Continue reading "The 40-Year-Old Virgin: a surprisingly good movie" more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 03/10/2005 8:31:09 AM
Content source: http://www.gamesareforchildren.com/archives/275-The-40-Year-Old-Virgin-a-surprisingly-good-movie.html

Is everything in life due to love?

I recently heard a disturbing statement over the radio, which I later found was echoed countless times across the Internet. The DJ was discussing the show's favorite topic: relationships - when someone called and proposed the idea that everything everyone does is in some way related to sexual reproduction. The theory, which I confirmed elsewhere, goes that the sole purpose of any species is to reproduce, and humans, while more intelligent than other creatures, still exist for that sole purpose despite everything we've accomplished.People who subscribe to this idea take even the most seemingly unrelated actions as meaningful in a sexual context. For example, people strive to become rich not because of the goods that can be bought with all that money, but because being rich impresses the opposite sex. They become politicians not because they way to do good and not even because they want to have power over others, but because being important leads to more opportunities for sex. They help others not for the others' benefit but for the recognition that comes from doing so. Almost everything can be explained by this theory, or so they claim - the human mind is hardwired to have sex and reproduce, and not satisfying that desire is standing against mother nature.Continue reading "Is everything in life due to love?" more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 02/10/2005 2:14:06 PM
Content source: http://www.gamesareforchildren.com/archives/274-Is-everything-in-life-due-to-love.html

Do you know how to be single?

I'm 27 (well, 28 in about a month) years old, and I haven't been single since I was 17. My relationships, all of them, have been long term, and so, the enormity of this fact didn't hit me until my most recent breakup with a girl I've been seeing for the past 5+ years.Continue reading "Do you know how to be single?" more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 02/10/2005 8:00:01 AM
Content source: http://www.gamesareforchildren.com/archives/272-Do-you-know-how-to-be-single.html

Love songs

One of the issues that's always bothered me is that of contemporary music, but until recently I didn't think about actually writing a post. Unlike the concerned parents or congressional committees, I don't really care about whether lyrics are explicit or not. I see something that a lot of people take for granted: where they say "that's the way it always has been" or "that's just because" - or perhaps they never thought about it. What is this "issue," you ask? 95% or more of songs on the radio today are "love songs."I use the term broadly, because if you're tuned into the top 100 recently, "sex songs" is a more apt description. Still, the songs all have to do with relationships, dating, romance, sex, love, hate over love, breakups, jealosy, getting back together, clubs, bars, women, and a million other variations on this one theme. The problem is that it gets so trite after a while that one almost feels like gagging. After all, how many songs can you listen to where someone moans over what (s)he did and wants the partner back? (Perhaps the moaning is about something more purient.) Or how about another masterpiece about noticing some stranger across the dance floor and getting it on? It gets sickening.Continue reading "Love songs" more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 01/10/2005 8:13:58 PM
Content source: http://www.gamesareforchildren.com/archives/269-Love-songs.html

Cut your losses and move on?

There's been a great deal of talk lately on this site about whether it's possible for someone to change dramatically over a short period of time. I've been arguing, and will continue to argue, that not only is such change possible, but that it happens all the time. The problem is that most people are ignorant of changes that occur in others.A great deal of evidence exists suggesting that first impressions make a lasting impact, no matter the area of life. With the high standards many people have in the area of dating and relationships, someone who doesn't measure up in even some small area risks being marginalized within two minutes of the first encounter. It's no wonder that, even if that person became completely different a year later, in 999 out of 1000 cases, the other's opinion would not change. Perhaps people will disagree with me, but I don't believe I'm exaggering these statistics - people are that set in their ways.Continue reading "Cut your losses and move on?" more...


Dating Advice
Originally Posted on 01/10/2005 4:48:56 PM
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Is getting back together a good idea?

Today is an exciting day. Pourquoi?  Because one of my beloved best friends, M, is having an ex-boyfriend over for dinner.  M wants the ex back and I'm curious as heck to hear how dinner goes.  (It's a little bit of soap opera voyeurism for me, I must admit.)In my preceeding post I mentioned that some people stay friends with an ex-lover to maintain the chance of reuniting.  But is reuniting even a good idea?  Should you get back together with an ex?Continue reading "Is getting back together a good idea?" more...


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Originally Posted on 01/10/2005 10:19:45 AM
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